Chrissy, I like Famous Dave's Rib Rub best, but like Dave, Bad Byron's Butt Rub is a great alternative, for off-the-shelf rubs. I can no longer find Dave's rub locally anymore, but I order a 6-bottle pack from Amazon...works out to be about $4/bottle. It's a good mix of sweet and heat, I think.
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